You should use DeleteEntitiesDirectly and pass it a filter. This is an aprox code:
var bucket = new RelationPredicateBucket();
bucket.PredicateExpression.Add(FriendFields.MemberGui == memberGUID & FriendFields.FriendGuid == friendGUID);
bucket.PredicateExpression.AddWithOr(FriendFields.MemberGui == friendGUI & FriendFields.FriendGuid == memberGUID);
using (var adapter = new DataAccessAdapter())
{
adapter.DeleteEntitiesDirectly(typeof(FriendEntity), bucket);
}